There is a song by Alessia Cara “Growing Pains”. This song hits the same spot whenever I listen to it, maybe because I relate a lot. There are plenty of songs and their lyrics that are exactly what we are going through…
This song makes me remind of all pains that I have been through in past, I feel if there was someone or something who could have stopped me to go to the decisions, that caused me the those trauma, if there was something like buzzer or anything else that could aware me of upcoming breakdowns…If I could see future, if, I could sense the danger…
Isn’t it like something we should listen to our minds instead of hearts, isn’t it like playing safe could have saved a lot of time, energy, emotions and mental condition!! It could have been better…..couldn’t it??
We start complaining about our past for our present situation, maybe it is connected, but maybe it is not!! We sometimes forget to feel free from what has happened, and we sync everything in the present as well. We want everything to be cleared, we want everything to be washed away…
What comes in your mind cannot be done every time, we need to give rest to our minds too, pain makes a stronger you, pain is important, if you are not getting band-aids for them, try some ointments, and yes, like everything is a past now, this time will also fly, keep patients, be alive…
Mercy on yourself is the first step you need to take…take care…
