It is not possible to fulfil other’s expectation from you. You may walk on your own path while listening to others. People ask you to complete thousands of tasks from the list they made and never ask you if you wanna do that or not.
Times come when you just want to give up on the list they have imposed on you, who are they? They are the one who are really close to our heart, the people who might be living with you or in your mind. These are the one whom we cannot say no to…
This is the actual fact “You cannot say no to these people” and these people don’t think twice before pressurizing unknowingly. They are not aware of the fact that they might be hurting you with their expectations. You are not here to please everyone, and they are not here to un-please you every time.
SAYING NO never makes you a terrible person, you may think of hurting the person you love but what about yourself? You probably don’t want to hurt yourself the most!! Do You??
You look selfish, you look arrogant, or you look the worst a person can imagine, but you speak your heart and your mind the time you say NO!
No is just not a word, it’s not an action, it is not even a feeling, No is your confidence, it shows how much prepared you are for the worst that can happen, it shows YOU LOVE YOUR INNER VOICE.
Not wanting the universal or not wanting what society wants from you is a normal thing, but acting to show you don’t want is courageous! Believe me, once you start listening to yourself, no one can defeat you in the race of life, and yes, when you are not taking part in this race, just sit beside dear, you still do not need to run the same…
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